Hi,

 

You don't know me.... but, I was searching for a friend's space (and I thought you were him because you look just like him) and I found your space and found the quote "Sometimes we put up walls, not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down" and the other quote about the learning about man through play instead of conversation..... it's so true. The thing about the walls though really "hit the nail on the head" with me, and I've never heard it described that way before. So, far no one has cared enough to break them down.... but I keep looking. Just thought I would say that, and I sound like a total creep. Have a good day!

very good/true hun, hang in there:)

sometimes in life we get caught up in ourselves and forget whats around us and the things people do for us.  next time you find yourself pissed off or upset with someone, instead of slandering them for not being there for you, take the time to think of when they were there, we can't all be there all the time, and you can't rely or expect anyone to take care of you, thats your job!! only you know whats best for you, and only you can be relied upon 100% of the time to help yourself out. Life is all about beginning independant!! doing it for yourself, this is where cofidence comes from, this is where happiness comes from, no one else can do these things for you. and the only way you can obtain them is to be independant.  Independant doesn't mean you don't need anyone's help, it doesn't mean you can make on your own, it means you take charge, and you make it happen. independant is  not a gift anyone can give you, it is something created by you. Likewise, no one, is obligated to help you!! its not my job to make sure you're ok, its not your job to make sure i'm ok. Its no one's responsiblity but your own!